How to be more social

If you would like to become more social you have to follow some easy and practical steps. Everybody is happier if they have a lot of friends and relationship because we born social. The only problem is that through the years we became fearful and we developed a lower confidence. In our childhood we were always punished if we tried new things. For example we crossed the road or singed on the street and our parents immeadiately told us off. We were conditioned to limit ourselves and not to try knew things because we fear that we will be judged by other people. If you really wanna make it just follow the next steps and you will soon realize that it worthed the price.

1. Talk to other people

   Maybe it seems too simple but in fact this is the most effective way to be more social. Overcome your fears, talk to strangers and get to know new people. If you would like to be more an extrovert rather than an introvert you have to keep practicing and making new friends. If you are a hard introvert you live in your head more rather than in the external world and you will hardly know yourself. The best way to get to know yourself is to chat with people and experience yourself in different types of social situations. If you get to know yourself you will be more expressive and it will be more and more easy to build your social life.

2. Do not compare yourself to others

   Others are not better than you and you are not better than others. If you keep comparing yourself to others you will always find somebody who does something better than you and you will be envy or angry of them. Do not make this mistake and just try to be yourself.

3. Do not always look for other people's approval

   There is no way that everybody will approve you as you are. Somebody will always hate you but others will like you if you fully express yourself. Don't fear to express who you are because it will worth the price. This way you will always make real friends who like you as you are.

4. Join a group of people

   Find a club or group with like-minded people. If you join a group you will belong to somewhere and you can always talk to other people of the group because you have similar interests.